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Sometimes; things does not go your way. because we're in no position to control. how can we claim everything our way. how can we claim our truth when we're not even them. and it always seem impossible to understand what they are thinking. because afterall, you're not them. how do we know if they put in the effort to and even if we know, we still cannot accept the very fact that they left us. everything was unintentional and i believe no one would ever had the evil intention to hurt people whom they loved once. we didnt think of the future and how can you see the forever in us. yet, we cannot run away from all these mess. we had to face it. and thinking how badly they had hurt us, think if you had hurt the other party ever. in one or two incident, there bounds to be hurt caused. and you cannot run away, and you can never avoid because in a love relationship, either you get hurt or me getting hurt. lets exclude all the not serious r/s. because you put in ur very best, you give in your everything, thats why it hurts and hurts so badly. we all get hurt. thats love. it depends on how we try to overcome this hurt to start everything anew afresh. and because of truly loved, the other party would never want to leave you in storms. yet, as usual, a sorry can never make up for it. its true because it hurts damn badly. and we had to live by with hurts and apologies. in a failed relationship, thats what you get. hurts and apologies. unless you are willing to get the memories. the best memories. i left school by school with no certs no achievements no awards but memories. thats the best thing you can ever get. we choose. and because of these hurts, we grow. dont blame. dont ask why they left. if they hadnt give you any reason why they loved you; then no reason should be asked for leaving. and still, the memory of the loved ones would still be the purest, the sweetest and the best. we keep best memories, dont we. we fell, and we try to get up. thats life. part and parcel of life. love is.

for a couple of friends who are still struggling.

i heard this phrase. love brings you to a scale. in fact, the maximum scale. if you're happy, you're happier and naturally, if you're upset sad hurt, you know what we'll get right.

happy valentine's day. it doesnt need a valentine to make this day v-day. make this day your day instead. find reasons for your happiness.